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I [23/M] asked the girl [23/F] about our relationship. Didn't get the answer I was expecting. Should I just move on from her?

Dating

We've been dating for over 2 months now, gone out numerous times, been physical numerous times, talk daily (more on this later though).

Last night we were messaging and I asked her "Kinda sudden but what exactly is our relationship? I don't really know what you're feeling". She replied "You're fun to be with!". Both verbatim.

On the one hand, great. I am at least a fun person to be with. Great. But, we've been going out for a bit here to still not be boyfriend and girlfriend yet, no? So this morning I responded to another of her messages very bluntly, just "Yup".

I've been doing this lately -- messaging her hours after she messages me, in short one or two word responses. I don't know if it's wrong, but I don't want to look clingy.

What does her answer even mean though? "You're fun to be with!". How exactly is that an answer to my question? I'm not asking if I'm fun to be with, I'm asking what our relationship is and if it's just "fun" I don't really want it.

Should I just move on from her? Or try and figure out what's going on here?


tl;dr: Tried to define the relationship with girl I've been dating for almost 3 months. She told me I'm fun to be with. I am confused, questioning if I should continue the relationship -- whatever it may be.

Posted Feb 17, 2017, 2:30 AM UTC

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