I [21 M] want to break up with my girlfriend [21 F] of 3 years, but don't know if I have the strength to follow through

STRENGTHS: 31

• 8 Affection

• 7 Love

• 7 Values

• 6 Understanding

• 3 Music taste

WEAKNESSES: 61

• 8 Not ambitious

• 7 Not independent

• 6 Lazy

• 6 Lack of intellectual connection

• 5 Not career oriented

• 5 Not sexually compatible or kinky

• 5 Monogamous (I would prefer to be in a non-monogamous relationship)

• 5 Social anxiety

• 4 Depression

• 4 Requires more time than I have available

OPPORTUNITIES: 4

• 4 Don't have to focus on finding people

THREATS: 27

• 8 Freedom

• 7 Eternal back/fourth

• 6 Missing out

• 6 Potential resentment on my end

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  tl;dr: I need help to find the emotional strength to overcome my attachment with her and break up! My last 2 attempts failed. And I've thought about doing it every other week for the whole 3 years together.