My girlfriend is making me so fucking furious during out attempt to move house.

we're moving together to attend university together and we've been struggling to find a house. I've literally done everthing. I can't stress that enough, I got both our credit checks, bank statements, even wrote a cover letter for us. Since the place we're moving to is 4 hours away and you apparently have to inspect anywhere before you rent it I've had to go down and stay with a friend to inspect things ALONE while she worked and saved a bit. BAM rejection on that set. We planned another 3 day trip and inspected roughly 16 properties (i organised and payed the train fair for the both of us) and planned out EVERY SINGLE HOUSE to inspect from dawn till the afternoon.

Now we've actually gotten a call back from one and they want her mother to sign an application form since she will be supporting my partner but my girlfriend will not wake her up for any reason. Sure the realtor said that the realtor said that she's going to wait until she wakes up in 3 in the afternoon but what if someone swoops in? Its not in writing so its as good as nothing. I'm furious right now, I've had to sort and do everything up to this moment and now that she actually has to do something she's worried that her mum will be mad.

I told her that i can't understand how she'd be mad if you woke her up so we can move out a week before school fucking starts and that she can blame me but now she's 'crying uncontrollably' yeah well what about me? You're making my heart beat out of my chest in anxiety. What happens if we dont find a house because you didnt want to get in trouble? YOU WOULDNT EVEN GET IN TROUBLE.

Now im playing mock nice so that she stops fucking crying and wakes her mum up. I would had done it 4 hours ago when they rang instead of leaving it this long...

I now feel so bad for making her cry but even worse because shes leaving me anxious, crying, and villainized.

I know im probably seeming like a complete cock head and that's because i feel mad. When people are mad they say things they'll regret.

If we had the lease in our hands i wouldnt be worrying but WE DONT

Posted Feb 17, 2017, 2:46 AM UTC

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