Any tips on accepting your own gayness?

You know how some people can be implicitly bias?

I think I'm implicitly bias against gays. Which to me suggests self hate.

Consciously, I'm ok with LGBT. But I think the subtle messages in society has made me subconsciously think being LGBT is something to be ashamed of, or wrong.

Anywho, any advice on truly accepting your own gayness? I tried finding LGBT role models, but I only really admire Karl Lagerfeld.