Can you blacklist missions to co-op in?

Because I'm sick of being summoned into Dazaifu shrine. It's always the same. Kill the Nue, then sit there for up to 10 minutes while summoner attacks Fuku and her familiar. Are people not able to read? She gives you the 'sorry' gesture and tells you to say sorry to her familiar, so I think it would be super obvious. But apparently not. ¯_(ツ)_/¯