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starmiehugs

About to Go MEGA VVVVVLC - Tips?

About to go into ultra VLC for the whole faaaaaaaamily including the sibs because they've shown they care more about the idea of getting new toys from insurance money than they do about DH.

I've revoked their invitations to all the family events we have planned.

They're going on an info diet. Not sure how to do this on all my social media things but I'm gonna be up tonight figuring it out.

No one from that side is invited to the vow renewal for now. We'll see. Right now it's looking like we might not renew our vows because we are considering having another child, one that no one in either of our families is likely to meet, but we can't have a renewal and a second kid. They don't know about our maybe baby and I plan it staying that way until it's born and maybe for a good long while after that.

No unsupervised visits. No video chat. They can only visit us here if they stay in a hotel. They cannot be around DD unless me and DH are both in the room.

DH isn't visiting them alone. Not for a long long long long long long time. His choice not mine.

Anything I missed???

I need a bubble bath and a chicken sandwich.

Posted Feb 17, 2017, 3:23 AM UTC

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