Why can the currently unrepentant not find salvation after death? - And prayers for the dead.

It is a common belief in the Church that those destined for 'Hell' will never repent or accept God's graces for all eternity because their hearts become hardened. (This is also taking into account this common view of Hell expressed by the Church.)

Why is this the case?

Especially considering individuals cannot choose the time of their death, and those dying early would not be given the chance of a later life conversion.

• Is it because it's God choice that the "Final Judgement" is, well, final?

• Is it the natural spiritual state of someone who has not repented?

If it's the second option: in the parable of the rich man and Lazarus, Lazarus desires the Bosom of Abraham - despite initially entering Hades. He seems to then proceed to understand the need for repentance, even if it comes from a place of self-interest in not wanting Hell.

Also: How does this relate to prayers for the dead?

I mainly made this post as I've made an effort to include any departed I personally know of in my prayers. I hope for their (and everybody's) salvation - despite many living completely outside of Christendom.

Some other possible responses:

• "The Church doesn't hold official dogma regarding this aspect of the afterlife and it is a Divine mystery. We do not know the bounds of God's grace. Trust God to do what's best."

• "Don't worry about Hell, just focus on working out your own salvation in fear and trembling."

• "None of us, including yourself, can judge one's spiritual disposition at the time of death. Continue to pray for them and hope they became open to God's graces before dying."

• "Ask your priest."