RSVP Rant: Just Say No!

You guys. There are two couples, one are FH's cousin and his FW, and a friend of mine and his FW. Couple 1- have had some issues lately, and "aren't sure" if they can make it to our wedding. Bruh, then say no. Couple 2- just moved but are coming back to our hometown every couple of weekends to plan their own wedding, which is three weeks after ours. RSVP date was about a week ago, and since then I have Facebook messaged both of the women in these relationships, twice each, to see if they are coming or not. I can see they have read the messages...If you can't go or you don't know just say no! they are both planning their own weddings right now, you think these would be the first to send in a response LOL