Well, that date went terribly

Ughhhh. I'm newly out (28) and I've been talking to a girl on Tindr. She invited me over to her place, which is an hour away. I switched my plans around, took the train over, and called her. She told me that her daughter is asleep, so she can't get me.

So now I'm waiting for the next train, which comes in an hour, to go back. I feel utterly rejected. I don't understand. How did I screw that up? On one level, it seems like it can't be my fault, but on another, I feel like it's my fault, like I creeped her out somehow. Or like women who like women as a whole are rejecting me because I waited too long to join them.