(FR) Fucking a Pro to get over the cheating ex

My-ex cheated. Whine whine. Cry cry.

Now I actually loved her, and made the mistake of trusting someone I shouldn't have. So I am presently in the pickle of dealing with the emotional fallout. That's just a fact of life, I gave her the power to fuck my frame the day we got serious.

Other than deleting and blocking her on everything, I know that going out on the town and trying to score new chicks is the redpill prescription. That is exactly what I'm doing tonight.

But yesterday, I also hate a date with a pro. Bangin' hb9 for what to me amounts to a weekends worth of drink & party money. And boys, let me tell you, it was money well spent.

The emotions, scarcity and sad feefeez all took a major backseat. It doesn't matter that I paid for her. My hindbrain does not compute that some kind of monetary exchange was involved.

My hindbrain is remembering the pro's smell, the way she groaned and moaned and somehow got turned on despite herself as I nearly choked the life out of her and took the reigns. The monkeybrain only understands that my dick got wet less than a week after the breakup, and how much I enjoyed the flesh of another woman, and will continue to enjoy more and more after her.

I will do this every 2 weeks as needed until I have a healthy rotation of plates again, or until all of the little lingering emotions for my ex disappear entirely, whichever comes first.

This goes to show that there is an important difference between the irrational, primitive instincts that cause you to cling to an unhealthy relationship vs. the rational, executive reasoning you use to construct your overall frame and direction in life. I know exactly what I want - nothing more than to be free, pursue other women and move on. But I am a human with emotions, and those emotions need to be led just like a woman.

Your mind is a chariot. The horses will get freaked out if you let them run wild. You can't always control what you feel, but you can ALWAYS control what you do. And if you accept that it's up to you to steer your chariot in the right direction, and calm your emotions through corrective action, you will eventually find yourself back in the driver's seat. The emotions will fall into line.

For anyone considering the services of a pro, this was my approach:

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Filter for providers in your area that have recent positive reviews. This indicates that they are active, and are currently successfully seeing clients. Don't settle for backpage trash. A few hundred is worth the experience of someone legit beautiful and classy.

If you have never done this before, like me, you will need to share some personal information like a FB page, linkedin profile, or even a driver's license. Once you have seen a provider or two you will have references and can then use 411 or some other validation service while maintaining your anonymity.