"What do you want me to do, set an alarm for 5 am?"

Husband in midst of fight says the following dumb things and I often just say yes to his "threats".

In response to, I have to wake up when the kids wake up, and then wake you up, and then go back to sleep. "What do you want me to do? Set an alarm for 5 am and get up and clean or whatever it is you do?" Me: Yes.

In response to, no fucking person on the planet gets a 2 hour wind down after work. "You won't be happy until I come home from work and do everything all night? Is that what you want?" Me: "Yes"

Why does he think these are such extremes that I would suddenly back down? Of course I want him to be an active involved parent.