Serious question: Are only males allowed to be charismatic?

Every time I hear the word "charisma", I just think of it as a male quality. That's completely unfair of course but I think about it and there are literally almost no examples of charismatic females in American society as opposed to charismatic males like Obama. I can think of funny female comedians or good actresses. But we can't define charismatic females as a society. And it looks like we don't even care to try at this moment in history