Have you ever been mistreated because of your gender?

Some guys can be really big jerks online,and I feel like no matter how nice I am,some people will always look down on me because of being a male and I have to deal with that way too often,my peronality doesn't help much either because I identify myself as a female in a male body,I always struggle to be noticed and get attention,searching for friends and just connect with other people in general its agonizing for me as my personality donesn't fit my gender at all.