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Uio1233

Am I [M23] losing feelings for her [F30]? - Long distance

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6 weeks ago I met a very sweet girl, who was on vacation for a short period of time. We ended up spening one and a half day together before she had to go home, which was really sad because we really liked each other. Like alot. We both thought that we would never see each other again, but still ended up texting when she got back home.

She had for a long time wanted to move away to someplace else and work. One week after she got back home she started talking about this, and talking about moving to a place close to me, where she already had one family member and some friends living.

2 weeks later (3 weeks after she went back home) she pretty much decided to move there, since she had wanted to do that for a long time, but never had the gut to do it, but now because of me she took the final step.

It is now 6 weeks since I have seen her and she is coming here in 2 weeks. We have texted every day since, and also talked some.

The thing is now that since it has been so long, I kind of dont have the same feelings anymore as I had when she was here, where I actually fell in love with her. I am still very attracted to her though.

I'm not sure whether those feelings will come back when I see her again, but I'm scared that they won't and then I feel like I'm misleading her.

What do you guys think?

TL;DR: Met a girl on vacation who is now moving to a place close to me, but I dont think I have the same feelings anymore, and I'm now feeling that I'm misleading her.

Posted Jun 16, 2017, 7:13 PM UTC

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