Divorced AP

So my reason for getting into this lifestyle is my lack of time with SO.

I met my first AP in December, things were good with us seeing each other weekly sometimes twice weekly. The past month and a half we both got sick, both took family vacations (he's there now) and he also had a work trip, so it's been one time every three weeks that we've seen each other. This is not enough time for me - and I feel if something is off - even though he still messages me everyday ( except now with the family which I understand ). Although he has had time to log into AM - but I digress...

AP2 I'm really not into though the chemistry was great the first couple of meets, it's waned.

So now I have a PAP, 6 years divorced does not want a serious relationship. We've only exchanged photos no in person meet up yet, so I've no idea how the chemistry will be. It seems like there are lot of positives here. Own place, every other weekend free, (which works for me also), lives far enough away from anyone I know so no fears of going out in public, and I'll actually get overnight time with him if I wanted it. Still I know the risks of doing this with a single person. Opinions and advice please!