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Magnetocheese

Dating: big day comming

So, I've got an important week coming up next week, it's the last week I've got at the place I work at, and I want to ask her out!

We are the same age, I'm INTP and she is probably not far from it, we have had some discussions going on at work but I want to know her more, good thing I'm not leaving town when I change workplace.

My colleagues have really helped us both in the way that we have actually started to think about each other. She is probably a bit shyer then me and probably just as bad at dating.

But the hard part and it really stresses me out is actually asking her out, I've never dated before and never had much off a success before.

My gut feeling is all over the place and I'm not quite sure how I should tell her or what to tell her. Leaving my feeling like this and not asking her out will destroy me and I will surely regret it, so it's a must! =)

So is there anyone out there who got an idea what I could take her out on. In my town, there is some art that is all over the central city, or just coffee at a cafe or something strange like table tennis or just some walking.

What is the INTP way?

Oh right, telling her like tomorrow or the day after via text or in person Monday/Tuesday/Wednesday, then I'm gone.

I'm nervous guys.

Posted Jun 16, 2017, 7:40 PM UTC

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