What triggers you?

I am ready reconnect with all of you but I get triggered by everything. I get triggered by people trying, going through IVF again, breastfeeding, unexpected pregnancies. I'm not doing well reading about it. It upsets me or wants me to try again even though I KNOW we are done and nothing will change that.

What triggers you? If we were to have a trigger fee weekly post what should we avid besides everything I listed above?