MTF lesbians, what do you want cis lesbians to know?

Edit: Trans lesbians

Do cis lesbians help you or halt you? What can we do to help you on your journey in life? What do you have to say to women who wouldn't consider dating a trans woman? Do you believe being pre or post op is significant?

For the record, I'd date a woman pre-op. I don't hate penises, but I just don't like men. I do like boobs though so that's a plus, but I like women because they're women. I believe trans women are just as much as women as those who were lucky enough to be born as so. Either way, I want to know how to help and make your lives easier and better. We women need to stick together.

Edit: there was someone who replied to this and deleted just as fast. I got a notification and was able to read part of it. I want you to know, you are accepted here, please come back and say what you need to say. I myself, get scared posting online, even anonymously. I want/need to hear your voice in this. Have no fear my dear hahaha (alcohol) sorry.