This place is just so tough (31HLM)

Hey all.

I've written here before but I got paranoid and created this throwaway. I'm now staying in this new form :)

Okay, I've read a few posts here that either scares me or just saddens me. The first segment is the posts where HLW write - I'm just so...... angry I guess is the right word. How is it even possible? I'm not trying to belittle you in any sense, but I have been with my wife almost 10 years now and have only had casual sex before her, so I just had no idea that it wasn't a general thing that men wanted sex and women didn't want to give it. It just blew my mind!

The other is thing I read was the one where one asked if one would leave when the children moved away from home. I want to do that but...... it's 15 years from now! Shit........ why does this have to be so damn hard!