Postpartum sex - when does it get better?

Ok ladies - I'm 5.5 months out and HATE having sex. I basically do it as a wifely favor once a month. We EBF and did not have a traumatic birth. Mentally I want to have sex, but when it comes to doing the deed I hate every minute of it. It doesn't hurt, it's just uncomfortable and I can't get into it. When did you enjoy sex again? Adults go through phases too right?