F4A - Do your worst: Humiliation and control

I am a lesbian, and I'm married, but my sex life is far more vanilla than I'd prefer. I am looking for someone to help me explore fantasies and make me feel dirty. My main interest is in humiliation. I want to know how you would like to humiliate me and use me for your own amusement. Turn me into a sight so embarrassing that you can't help but laugh. I'm open to talking to men but I'm not going to have sex with you and am not interested in your cock so you would have to be creative. I am especially interested in humiliation as a form of revenge and/or through mind control - make me behave in a way I never would voluntarily. Use your imagination! You feel like you are superior and you have no qualms about showing it to me.

If this interests you and you have a unique suggestion for a prompt, I'd love to hear it.

Kinks include: bdsm, wetting/messing (but not touching or eating), pet play, mind control, humiliation, regression, transformation, domination
Limits: incest, touching/eating anything gross, gore