Anyone have a temple recommend that my wife and I can borrow in July?

I have a family member who is getting married and would like my wife and I to come. I haven't had "the conversation" with anyone in my family yet, and I don't intend to. Not only am I asking if anyone would be willing to loan out their recommends for us, but I am also wondering how successful these kinds of clandestine temple infiltrations are? My wife is worried that we'll be caught, but I don't know how tight security is at the temple for something like this. Thanks, fellow Heathens!