34 [M4F] NYC Inexperienced sub looking for a teacher

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Here's the run down — 34 year old guy, living in Brooklyn. Great (but demanding) job. Currently single, but dating. All things considered, I've got a pretty nice life going on here.

I've always been attracted to women who were sexually submissive. Most of my serious relationships have resulted in me playing (and enjoying!) the dominant role. But the other day, something clicked in me and made me think -- maybe it's time to start exploring something different? This might make me the living embodiment of the sexually submissive man cliché, but as my job continues to be more and more challenging and I'm tasked with being a leader in the office, the idea of being aggressive/dominant during sex too is just less fun. If anything, the thought of surrendering control for a little bit seems...really enticing.

I'm here because I have no real idea what I'm doing, ha. I found this sub reddit and was like, eh, I'll give a post a shot and see if there are any NYC-based dom women out there who take pity on this inexperienced, but willing, dude.

If you're interested in chatting, just send me a message! I'm not shy about meeting up, even if its just for a drink to size me up and see if I'm worth the effort.

Posted Jul 16, 2017, 9:24 PM UTC

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