Don't upvote please - place to ask questions?

Hello I've been reading and sort of jealously watching this sub-reddit for a couple months now. I'm always super impressed by some of the things that other ladies post about and are brave and sexy enough to do in public.

Is there another sub-reddit or place online or anything that is like this, but maybe a little more towards discussion or asking questions? I have made a couple accounts and tried to ask questions on here or nsfwiama sometimes but I always feel silly and inexperienced. Is there a place to maybe just discuss experiences and ask about silly fears and things like that?