Any advice please

My fiancé and I have just recently started with taking the step to prostate play . We have only done it once unfortunately we were both pretty drunk . Still remember everything and he knows he loves it . I'm posting this to see if anyone can give me some advice as to what things I can do to ease more of this play into our sober life which he is willing and wanting as well . Please anyone here tell me your stories on how it all started for you or your SO also how to bring more of this into action in the sex life anything is helpful and appreciate . P.M rather then comment thank you 😊