Dear black/Asian guys, you're not getting turned down because of racism, you're getting turned down because...

Dear black/Asian guys, you're not getting turned down because of racism, you're getting turned down because...

• You're a bottom and you're competing against 1000's of other bottoms where you live.
• You live in a small town with 2 gay people, and that one other gay guy (who happens to be white) isn't interested in you.
• You're fat and you're competing against guys who bother getting in shape.
• You're average looking or frankly ugly, and you're competing against some really handsome guys.
• You're fem and nobody likes that (not even other fems).

Pick one. It probably applies to you.

Some of these you can fix (small town, fat, fem, or bottom) so work on that and stop complaining online. Especially if you're fat... get off of Growlr/Chasabl/etc and get to a gym.

Otherwise, date within your limitations. If you look like Cedric the Entertainer, you're not going to date Ryan Reynolds.

Sorry "bros" but if Denzel Washington, Trevor Noah or Chadwick Boseman wanted to fuck white guys, they would not have a problem finding any.