Help with restoring a dead follower?

Hi all, so a Giant came lumbering across my home in Lakeview Manor and managed to kill Lydia before I could kill it. I tried to ressurect her via console commands, which worked, but now she appears to no longer be my steward. (none of the 'can you buy me these materials' commands or anything, and she doesn't hang around the manor).

She will still follow me if I tell her to but if I say 'its time to part ways' she says 'I'll be at home if you need me' but walks to I have no idea where (not my 'home' but not back to Whiterun either?). Also the dialogue option to re-invite her to be my steward appears not to be there either. I also tried 'recycleactor' in the console but that just made her dissapear again. Is she properly gone from any usefulness she may have had or can I still get her back to being my steward?