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20 [M4F] Florida/Anywhere - Entering transitional period

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Not as in the gender dysphoria "I am transitioning" type, more the "Spending the next 6 months picking myself up" type. But I'm going through that with like...one friend, and that's about it. So I guess let's get this post rolling with some small notes.

Primarily the first one because it's one that bothers me personally when i see it in other people; yes this account is basically a throwaway. I made a post on another account and basically only got responses from my ex pretending to be other people, normally I'd laugh at that and just assume I was being paranoid but it's a thing that was proven. I don't like the concept of using an account just to ignore people or treat them like shit. You don't have to worry about that if there's any apprehension on that front but I understand if you're looking at the whole situation and going "ehhh" because I would too.

Interests, since that's what a lot of conversation is based on: Music (punk and new emo primarily, I'm lame), video games, comics (Image and DC), I really like movies made before 1980 and will always take suggestions on that. I'm a super opinionated person though, and I come off aggressive but we can get into an argument/debate/whatever you wanna call it and like 5 minutes later I'm fine.

Formatting this post is really weird, I can totally waterfall information about myself at you in conversation but I don't expect anyone to see a random dude on R4R and, on a complete whim, message him and start talking, so if this comes off disjointed I'm sorry. I won't whine about all my problems into the ether like it matters, but there's a lot of them. I'm a 6'1, average weight dude that doesn't do a lot, I've got bleached hair right now but I usually do dumb stuff with it since it's long and just having long hair gets boring.

I guess to put what I'm looking for generically; romance. I'm bad at friendships because my social life is sort of dictated by me just flowing in and out of interactions, and it's the exact same in real life. Romance however I think I do pretty well at, and I'm totally fine with long distance. I'll put my standards bluntly just because expressing your standards tends to draw a lot of ire here: If you take care of yourself (like you're just at a healthy weight and know what a shower is) and I think you have a cute face that's all it takes for me to be attracted to you, I'm a really easy to manage person. I tend to be more attracted to alt girls but I don't really limit myself to a single demographic of people.

For politics and religion: Far-left, and )))I dunno((( respectively. I don't think about religion a lot because it just doesn't concern me, if there's a god I think that's pretty cool but I'd like to spend my life working on making due with what I've got, not what I'll have. Don't feel like there's limits though, if you're a follower of the christian faith I can totally respect that as long as it's not something you use to beat people over the head. And for politics as long as you've got empathy that's fine with me.

I guess the only thing I can say now to close the post is that I don't believe in judging people by their circumstances. Wealth, employment, education, etc. don't really impact how I treat others. As long as you're trying for a life where you're happy then you're doing something I respect enough to leave alone, you can be an artist still living with your parents as long as you're doing the thing you're passionate about it's something I'd like to hear about. I probably come off really weird, if that's the case I'm sorry but it doesn't really get any better the more you know me.

oh yeah, quick edit: I don't use kik, I never will use kik, but I have discord and am more than willing to talk there. My only real "rule" for non-reddit talking is that you be cool with hanging out sometime to play video games or whatever.

Posted Jul 16, 2017, 10:22 PM UTC

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