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European honeymoon location/itinerary advice

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My fiancé and I are getting married in October, and are planning to take our honeymoon the following summer, probably for 7-9 days. We narrowed it down to Southern (ish) Europe, but are having trouble landing on the ideal itinerary. Ideally our honeymoon would be split, with a few days in a city to soak up some history, culture, and interesting architecture, and the rest of time relaxing in a more rural village or enjoying natural landscapes. We want to be sure we're not hectically trying to do too much, though - it's a honeymoon and above all want to be able to focus on each other, in a romantic setting. We also are budget-conscious and so less expensive options get more points. Also, we eat a pretty much pescatarian diet, so very meat-focused places are a downside!

So those of you who are experienced European travelers, I would love to hear your thoughts on which of these seems most in line with the kind of honeymoon we want!

Barcelona and Morocco - we have both been to Barcelona (separately) and loved it, and the mixture of beach and lively culture sounds great for a honeymoon. He speaks Spanish and I speak French, so fewer language barriers is appealing, and crossing the Strait of Gibraltar seems exciting. But it doesn't necessarily sound super relaxing, so I'm not sure it's right for our honeymoon.

Venice and Italian Alps - He's always wanted to go to Italy, but aside from France (where I studied for a semester), Italy is the place in Europe I've spent the most time, and liked the idea of going somewhere neither of us have been. But I've spent so much time there because I love Italy, and Venice is the city I'd most enjoy going back to, as I was there only a few days over a decade ago, and found it so very surreal and romantic.

Vienna and Austrian Alps - Eastern Europe is appealing to both of us, but I've only been to Prague and Cesky Krumlov. Austria seems like it could be a cool mix of Eastern and Western Europe, and staying in a little village in the Alps sounds so cozy.

Croatia and Slovenia - he loves beaches and I love mountains, so it seems like we'd get both covered here, as well as the cozy Eastern European village feel. Worried it's sort of at an opposite pole from the Barcelona/Morocco option, though, without the same kind lively cultural experiences you can get in larger, historical cities.

Greece - I'd love to go to Athens for some history and then Santorini for the architecture or some other more remote island for the landscapes and beaches, but he's worried island-hopping will be stressful and expensive.

Thanks in advance for any thoughts and/or votes!

Posted Jul 19, 2017, 3:27 PM UTC

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NeoNerdScotland•

Just as a suggestion that falls somewhere between two of your options, have you considered the South Tyrol, particularly Bolzano/Bozen?

It's a pretty unique area, which combines Austrian and Italian Alpine life together. Bolzano is a beautiful city and the villages in the mountains around it are spectacular. Many of the villages have places to stay as well. The views from these villages are some of the mos staggeringly beautiful I've ever seen.

Bolzano itself is a relaxed place, but has some interesting cultural places to visit. In particular, there's the South Tyrol Museum of Archaeology, which houses Otzi the Iceman and his belongings. There's also Schloss Runkelstein, which is a very scenic castle with one of the largest intact collections of secular Medieval frescoes in Europe.

You could quite easily spend some time in Innsbruck in Austria, then take a train over the Brenner Pass to Bolzano.

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textrovertOP•

Exactly the kind of suggestion I was hoping to find here! It sounds ideal. Castles, mountains, villages, and medieval frescos sound completely up our alley, and I love that it's a place neither of us have been. I'm excited to bring it up to my fiancé so we can do more research on it together - thank you!

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Kori3030•

Definitely northern Italy is a place to have a closer look at. I would go beyond Bolzano which was a bit too industrial city for me and had a look at lake Garda and surroundings or Merano. But this is because I definitely like it to be further into the mountains than Bolzano.

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leavingsanfranciscoScotland•

crossing the Strait of Gibraltar seems exciting ...

It's not. You are stuck on a glorified boat for a couple of hours and you can't even see out the windows. You can go out on the deck but it's a tiny space on either side of the prow dedicated to people who can't go two hours without multiple cigarettes. And then you get to Tangier, which is one of the worst places in the world.

By all means, go to Morocco if you like - but pick a cheap flight to Marrakesh, Rabat, or Fez - Vueling is good from Spanish cities - rather than the ferry.

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textrovertOP•

Flight would be completely fine. Thanks for the tips!

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swollencornholioAirplane!•

Also, we eat a pretty much pescatarian diet, so very meat-focused places are a downside!

Well that mostly rules out Vienna and Austria. There's options but I'm not sure they would live up to your expectations especially compared to your other choices.

I think you do Venice, Dolomites, Como and Lugano or something similar. I like the Croatia and Slovenia option as well for your mutual interest, it might be pushing it on what you can cover in 7-9 days however.

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textrovertOP•

Yeah, the meat-focused diet is maybe the biggest downside of Austria. It is looking like somewhere in or around the Alps might make the most sense. I did stay in Varenna on Lake Como for a few days after my first time in Venice, and though it was one of the most beautiful places I saw in Europe, it feels like at least part of the honeymoon should be somewhere I haven't been. I'm liking the possibility of combining Venice with the Dolomites, or South Tyrol/Bolzano as another poster suggested!

When you say that 7-9 days might be pushing it for Croatia and Slovenia, do you mean because of the difficulty of traveling between/within them?

Thanks for your feedback and suggestions!

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swollencornholioAirplane!•

When you say that 7-9 days might be pushing it for Croatia and Slovenia, do you mean because of the difficulty of traveling between/within them?

They are more difficult to travel through than you'd expect and it would be hard to attribute so little days to each. You would have to skip some things in Croatia like Plitvice, Trogir, Pula, Rovinj and the Split islands. Basically it would be Ljubljana, Bled, Split and Dubrovnik.

A better option might be Slovenia and Austria or just do solely Croatia.

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textrovertOP•

That makes sense. Thanks again - this was helpful info!

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m4dswine•

Vienna has a good range of vegetarian/vegan restaurants, so for a few days you wouldn't be too badly off for food!

Sweet water fish is also quite popular here, and you do get sweet water mussels.

It gets flipping hot in Vienna in the summer.

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daKav9145 countries•

Croatia and Slovenia

I am not sure what the weather is gonna be like in Fall there, but oh boy, Croatian Adriatic beaches are probably one of the best out there. I'd totally do it all over again. Croatia as a whole has a not so happening food scene, but Dubrovnik is pretty nice food scene too.

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textrovertOP•

So I hear (about Croatian beaches)! What is the food like? Lots of seafood?

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daKav9145 countries•

Sea food, yes. I had oysters for $1 a pop! And being closer to Italy and Greece, good pasta, pizza, lasgna and some dope gyros.

I was there last summer, but I still cant get over the beaches there. And I live in Santa Barbara, CA.

[Banje beach in Dubrovnik] (https://pictr.io/i/IGSV9).

In Slovenia, I am sure you are aware of lake Bled, but look up on Vintgar Gorge. Thats beautiful.

Also, if you are so inclined you do a day trip to Montenegro and Bosnia as well.

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textrovertOP•

$1 oysters sound fantastic. As does an Italian-Greek food hybrid. I'm mostly worried about having enough time in each place if we try to see too much in Croatia and Slovenia, especially with travel time, but you definitely make it sound appealing!

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daKav9145 countries•

Happy to help. (Or confuse you even more). Happy travels!

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pullingflowers1•

Have you considered Andalusia? You get the Arab feel but you never leave Spain. Gorgeous cities, monuments (Alhambra!!!), beaches and towns. You can rent a car and go through the white towns in the mountains like Pampaneira. Lots of different things to see, experience, and eat! If you go, I would totally skip Gibraltar. Seriously not worth the detour and the Spanish town bordering it is really crummy.

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textrovertOP•

Thanks for the suggestion! Andalusia does sound lovely - we'll have to do some research.

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pullingflowers1•

Only thing is it gets pretty hot. If you're sensitive to the heat, you might want to consider cooler places. Or you could travel in the spring and spend less money and be among fewer tourists!

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textrovertOP•

I'm originally from Florida and he's originally from Texas, so we're generally okay with heat! The reason we're waiting until summer is because he graduates from law school in May, so unfortunately we won't be able to push it much earlier.

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Barcelona is nowhere near the Strait of Gibraltar. If you were considering the first option, Sevilla would be better. But I agree it seems unrealistic to go to Morocco for a couple days. Why not Portugal and somewhere in Spain. Or just Portugal. Go to Lisbon and then fly to Madeira.

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textrovertOP•

Yeah, the choice of Barcelona and Morocco wasn't because they're ideally proximal, but just because we'd love to go to both places and figured it was possible to make it work. Portugal is one to consider, though - thanks.

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ruglescdn•

He speaks Spanish and I speak French, so fewer language barriers is appealing, and crossing the Strait of Gibraltar seems exciting.

Then you will be all set for Morocco.

If you do plan on doing a Morocco day trip. Stay in Tarifa Spain. The ferry to Tangier from Tarifa takes you right to the center of Tangier as opposed to the big new industrial port outside the city.

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KRYMauL•

I'm not sure about the locations, but getting around every where by train, airbnb, and backpacking would be a good way to keep your budget lower and go to a few places.

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luoy_pandaUnited States•

My husband and I had our honeymoon in Greece (Athens & Santorini) in early June. Spent 3 days in Athens and 5 in Santorini, for us it had the right amount of history/touring/architecture and relaxation. Santorini doesn't have the best beaches in my opinion, but is extremely gorgeous, picturesque, and great for honeymooning. Oia definitely has the honeymoon feel around the city. Athens was surprisingly cheap, but if you go to santorini, it will be pricier. From other travellers' they also liked Crete and Naxos. Also, if you guys end up choosing Greece, I would recommend to go Late May/Early June or beginning of September, on the bookends of peak summer season and also when it isn't scorching HOT. The sun really beats down on you there!

My advice, no matter what place you choose is to leave some days open and not having anything planned. Sometimes it's just nice to enjoy a day of just lounging around and enjoying each other. Best of luck, all those countries sound amazing and you can't go wrong with any of them!

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