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Lalapiggy

Can you get a guy to like you after you've hooked up with his friend

Dating

I am a 22 yo female talking about two 23 yo males [P] and [H]

I had a brief fling with [P] who I ended up quite liking. He was just after sex and was quite clear about that. We made an arrangement to see each other the following day but he never messaged me...I felt v pissed off because I'd anticipated it. he probably found a more convenient option

Then we went on a big college trip and we mentioned that we'd hook up there but since [P] ignored me I didn't try to talk to him. I ended up getting v drunk one night and ended up having a fumble with [H] -one of his friends- which he noticed

upon reflection I played the entire situation wrong, I was so obvious with my feelings that [P] thought he could do whatever he pleases with me. However I still find that over summer I'm thinking about him a lotttt and wondering if I could still bring this back once we go back in September

tl;dr can a guy like you after you've had a drunken mess around with his friend

Posted Jul 21, 2017, 10:09 PM UTC

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