I've told my parents to keep out of my house

After a few days I established contact with my mother, and made her see just how clearly my father is a Narc.

Now she is realizing just how bad he is.

He has said things to me in the very rare times we've talked lately, 'you should be glad no one is coming after you'. (Over the phone) (I rang my mother, he answered)

He also left a voice mail message just now acting all normal yet saying ' I suppose that's all I can do '. Of course everything is about himself in the voice message, apart from its 'a miserable summer.

He also emailed me a picture of me with my mother's mother earlier today. In the photo I had a real frowning face and I looked like I was being mischievous. He is trying to make me see myself as bad, and its a situation that feels like it will get out of hand fast.

I met my mother today, without my father knowing. She is seeing it more from my part of view, and I think she is fully on my side, although how can I be sure? She lives with him. I fear today the idea of my mother leaving my father and my father becoming absolutely enraged with me.

I've just replaced the deadlock on my front door.

As my mother said it feels like a limbo at this time. The person who was meant to protect you in this world I am now afraid of

Does anyone have any experience of this, or advice, or words of wisdom?

Posted Aug 14, 2017, 6:59 PM UTC

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