[MAIN SPOILERS] And who is leading now?

Last episode I noticed that after all that 'bend the knee' thing, Daenerys is the one who is giving in, Jon says that he is a King and that's why he will leave, at this point Daenerys' hand try to use that to negociate with Jaime, with Davos taking him there and Jorah volunteered to go to the wall. But in the end that is not Dany's mission, and yet she let him finish her with I will not knee, I am a King.

Now you guys tell me, who is really leading? I'm just saying, Jon's ideas are growing stronger. Even Cersei seemed to agree, by saying that she will overcome even the dead, she is testifying she believes it somehow.