Confusing behavior

My other half is 31, and I'm almost 27. We have been together 5.5 years, and had a mostly dead bedroom for 2.5 years. We've had a lot of ups and downs in our relationship, most of them being that he is happy and i am not. Along with the sexless relationship, he has a very serious problem with spending too damn much time playing video games. we average having sex Maybe once every three to 4 months, in contrast to having sex damn near daily.

I hate the dead bedroom. I dont think anyone on the HL side doesnt. My biggest problem is that he still puts his hands all over me, But he won't have sex with me.

Right now it's been five MONTHS (edit). five months, not weeka since the last time.

I'm about to lose my shit.