Swingers, being a swinger, or however I should say it

Hi! I’m new to sex positivity, where I love isn’t really great for it, so I was hoping I could find some help here. Sex is a large part of my identity honestly. I’m very flirtatious and open when it comes to sex, which has been good and bad. I wanted to get into the swinging scene, but I don’t know how, or even where, to do it. I live in a small town so I know I’d have more luck in a large city, but front here I don’t even know where to start! Are there websites? Code words? People who know people? Thanks for any advice, I’m excited to start living how I want to!