Subreddit for those of us who don't pass/don't present love some opinions

Hi now bare with me on this lol. Im thinking about making a subreddit for those of us who do not pass and kind of know it, the ones who still present as the gender they were before transitioning, or never present, or the ones that are but it's not going so well. I was reading some suicide notes because I feel the same sometimes and was gonna post mine but I realized some of the notes have to do with not passing, or never coming out because of certain situations. I want to make a subreddit for the other side of transitioning, for those who don't have that awesome courage to be non passing and open , or tell your stories about not passing, get support from other people and know that they are not alone. Now here lies the problem, I feel like alot of this might stem from internalized stuff I get that, but what if you truely just don't pass, what if we are just truely realistic with ourselves idk. I want somewhere were we can talk, even have weekly tips on passing better to try and better ourselves and see what happens, just general trying to help each other out in any way we can because it be hard sometimes. Another problem is it could become a very toxic place with alot of negativity and suicidal ideation. Also there is alot of talk about passing privalege, but I do not want that because its not about tearing down but lifting up.any opinions or thoughts??

Posted Oct 28, 2017, 8:55 AM UTC · edited

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