So I went out on field service last week

My mum was ill last week and couldn't go preaching with another witness that she had made plans with so she forced me to wake up early in the morning to take her place, I was pretty angry about this and mumbled for a while but I got ready and left to go. When I arrived at the Hall nobody was there to open it so it was just me and a couple of sisters (one of them a year older then me and we went to the same school, she totally ignores me all the time for God knows why but whatever), about half an hour had gone by and a lot of other witness women arrived but no men yet apart from me, at this point one other lady arrived and said "where's our shepherd?", I was thinking wtf, then she turned to me and said "you will have to take the group since no other brother is here", I simply responded with a "no I wont" and she insisted three times after that, that I should since I'm the only male here, then she moved on and went to mingle with the others that had arrived, bare in mind I'm not baptised so I had no obligation or even in their terms, a right to take the group that morning, but if it wasn't for a man arriving a couple minutes after that to take the group everyone was already looking at me as if they expected me to do it, pfft, and they all know I'm out even baptised, ridiculous to be honest.