We had planned to break NC tomorrow and go for a coffee, not sure if I should just ignore her...

We broke up a couple of months ago. After 2 weeks NC she contacted me. We ended up hanging out and sleeping together a bunch of times with no real talk about reconciliation.

We split up for a few reasons, but in the end I had some serious insecurity issues which was tough to get over. She asked me to work on "myself" because the relationship was killing her. So I have been - I've been seeing a personal therapist since we split, I've been working on my own self-image and confidence levels - and it has helped me immensely. I have lost 15lbs since we split and I understand a lot of where my insecurities come from. Initially this thrilled her so she felt re-connected to me and that was why we started hooking up again.

Finally she said that she felt it wasn't fair to either of us to do this while I was doing so much good for myself, so we decided to take some actual time apart with an agreement that neither would contact the other. We had planned to break this NC tomorrow and meet for a coffee to "talk", although she told me when I last spoke to her that I shouldn't hold out hope for us, I should work on me and if it means moving on, then I should. She loves me, misses me, but that there is no way we can continue until we've both had time to reflect and work on our own problems. She cried a lot last time I saw her, but she hasn't given me a single breadcrumb since - she has held true to her end of the deal.

I don't know what to do with tomorrow. I've decided I will not reach out first. If she doesn't either then it is an easy solution. If she does then I'm not sure what to do...

TL'DR - Ex and I had a planned "NC Break" and a date to talk about things. Not sure if I'm ready or should even go through with seeing her.