34[m4f][Bay Area,CA] Lonely and searching for someone....

Hi there,

So I have been wanting to post for a while, but everytime I sit down and write something, I read it then immediately hate it and delete it.

Well here it goes.

I have a great job. I have an awesome child. I have awesome friends. I am healthy I am in decent shape, but getting in better shape I go to the gym a bunch I am into a lot of nerdy things I am into kink, not a deal breaker if you're not, but maybe a bonus if you are I work a lot, and manage a lot of people. I am really laid back in my personal life

What I dont have is an FWB or relationship, I miss that. As you might have guessed I am open to both an FWB and/or a relationship.

I value personality over most everything else in a relationship/fwb. But I do think the following should be true:

honest, caring, smart, funny, sarcastic Some combination of the above, I want to like you and enjoy spending time with you Takes care of themselves I love to eat and love to be lazy, but I bust my ass in the gym so that if I want to eat a ton of ice cream I can. Im not saying that you need to be super thin or have a six pack or something, just healthy. Is upfront Look I dont know you, you dont know me. And this is the internet, ghosting happens, but lets be adults. I dont want to guess, I dont want to talk and then poof youre gone. I wont do it to you, I expect the same in return. I am blunt and if you are too great, it makes things much easier. I have left a lot of things about me out, it was on purpose. I want to talk, and have genuine conversations and find out where that goes. So if you're interested lets have a conversation and see where it leads.

I am not shy, but also not really into posting a pic on here, but happy to share one early on. Also I dont like chatting on reddit much, snap/text/kik/skype, any of those are fine. Even reddit chat is ok for short term.