should M(30) be with F(30)

Aug - met, first date. Claimed she hadn’t been on a date in 18 months and is single.

Sept - She insisted on talking about previous partners. I didn’t want to. She persisted and joked that she probably had more partners. She admitted to 30 partners, then sulked when I told her I had a higher number (I didn’t disclose an amount) as she thought I was different. She started talking, without me wanting to know or asking about it, about her past and often getting cystitis after sex and having essentially warts dry iced from her thighs in her early 20’s.

Oct - admits to sleeping with someone else in Sept from her work on a work night out mid week. This was before we had had sex for the first time. She insisted it was a mistake and that she was telling me as she felt guilty. A week after telling me she had her leaving party at work. Initially I was invited, and she was not going to invite the guy. In the end, I wasn’t invited, and she didn’t uninvite the other guy. She took a pic of her work mates with him standing in front of her, and posted in on social media. She stayed with me that night, and the next day said that she posted the pic because it has her friends in it, and she wasn’t hanging out with him.

Nov - shows me a pic of myself on her whatsapp messages to her friend that she sent back when we first started, a couple of pics down was a pic of the guy she slept with. She had taken it the morning after their night together of him in his suit ready for work.

Dec - my bday dinner with her. this is 2 days before she went on an overseas beach trip with the girls for her bday. She said last time she went away with the girls, to the same location, they met 2 guys. Her friend liked one of the guys better, but ended up settling for the other one because her preferred guy started hooking up with my gf.

Jan - gf bday post holiday. She had previously sent a message via social media to a bar for drinks post bday dinner. Owner of the bar added her as a friend from his personal account, she accepted. During the night at the bar she sent a private message to the bar owner asking where he was and to come to the bar. He arrived, although he is always there anyway - not due to her request, and she was steering at him, eyes following his every move.

There have been other issues, hopefully this is enough to get a feel for the situation.