How mad should I be or shouldn’t be?

Update to the Ivanna situation: She’s behaving. We had a FaceTime with them a week or so ago. She wasn’t making peanut gallery comments at all. But she did record the entire video chat. Odd. I know. We’re both in a one party consent state so I don’t know what else to do. And I told DH he needs to say something about it. He hasn’t. Go figure. She hasn’t talked to me at all. Which I’m not complaining about one bit.

Therapist says I need to forgive her but I just don’t know how. Every time I think about all the shit she’s pulled for 6 years just enrages me. So I guess only time will tell. Maybe?

Oh! And a (current) story about Ivanna and her train wreak sister.

TLDR (I think that’s it is) Ivanna and her sister are posting pictures of my DD without my consent to Facebook in a public platform. (Meaning, every post is public for the world to see and not set to “friends only”) and this is making me uncomfortable.

Cross posted from r/justnofamily

Facebook. I have a love hat relationship with it. Mostly hate right now. My justnomil, Ivanna More, has posted pictures of my DD without my permission. I’d be okay if it wasn’t for the fact that EVERY SINGLE PICTURE OF MY DAUGHTER WAS MADE FUCKING PUBLIC. And Ivannas mores sister, who is very much a justno, shares every single picture of my daughter. Steals photos off Ivannas Facebook then posts them on her own page. (Background: Ivannas sister, is someone DH and I have decided that we don’t want our DD around at all. She’s never met our DD at all. And we intend to keep it that way.)

When she does post pictures, it’s ways “MY BAAABBBBYYY!!! LOOK AT MY BABY!” And yes. Caps. Every single time she posts anything. She’s constantly using my DD FULL NAME [first and last] and has posted her birthday all within the same post.

I’ve never even met the lady or even talked to her! This has me all sorts of feeling creeped out and upset. My DD is not for you to be posting at all. There’s plenty creeps out there and I don’t want my daughters pictures to fall victim to some sick bastard.

So on a scale of rage, how mad should I be? Do I bring this up with DH? who let’s recap, placates the ever loving shit out of Ivanna More.

What’s a good compromise, if there is one?

Because honestly, after finding my DD pictures plastered all over Ivannas sisters Facebook, I’m thinking of deactivating Facebook and not posting anything of dD ever again.

Ivanna lives in X state, Ivanna sister is in Y state, and we’re in Z state.