there is no 100% accurate documentary about how hard it is to have kids, it's ALWAYS watered down

when i see documentaries about it; they DO talk about how hard it is, but you know what pisses me off? they put some subtle happy music in the background, i'm not talking circus music, but they put some music in the background that kinda says "it's all gonne be ok though".

i think they should leave that music out and show the hardcore shit. and let people decide for themselves, based on their lives and competences, whether it will "be ok" and if it's worth it for THEM.

and in this one doc i just saw on tv, the woman was talking about how she is going grey from stress, and then her friend LAUGHINGLY says "that's how it is to have kids, Mulle" (Mulle is her name). so people out there watching it don't truly understand because she's laughing while saying it.