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Northsideboii

My message to the community

I finally decided it's time to do what I have to. I have enjoyed the memes, but most importantly, the company of all of you guys. I learned a lot from here, so I say it is high time I start giving something back. First of all, you are right. Every day, every moment, you are going to be judged by people. They might laugh at your face, your hair, your body, your whatever. But guess what? It doesn't matter. The girl that laughed at you probably has a plethora of her own problems, but by laughing at you, she is only making it worse for herself. The big muscular guy that joked about your height? Screw him, his opinion does not matter. What matters is you. You might not matter to a girl that you like, you might not matter to the jocks at your school or workplace, but you matter to you. Stop doubting yourself, stop caring about what others think of you, because they might as well just be another grain of sand on the world's largest beach. Second, the only thing you need to care about is the future. You are never going to change the past, but you don't need to, because nobody cares about it anyway. Stop looking over your shoulder, stop searching for the things that you have left somewhere along the way. Put your head up, look towards the horizon and do the most important thing in your life. Take a step forward. One at a time. And be it sooner or later, you will get where you need to be. And last of all, go out into the storm. You will face many hardships, many wild tides, many mutinies by your closest friends and many moments of absolute misery. But if you keep strong, if you prevail, your ship will arrive to the harbour. And just as you walk down the plank, you will notice something that is a scientific fact. That after the rain, comes the rainbow. Now ask yourself, do you need to follow all this? Hell no. Do not follow me, or anyone else. Choose your own path. That's the only way to joy. Not happiness, but joy. Happiness is fleeting, it's what you only retain for a quick moment. But joy, joy is something that is there to stay. Find joy in your life and you will know, that your path leads to victory. I am now leaving towards a more optimistic path in life and I sincerely hope to meet some of you along the way. Farewell my fellow men, it's been an honor to call you friends :)

Posted Mar 12, 2018, 9:23 PM UTC

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