Struggling to decide between the 90mm and the 50-140

I'm noticed while out shooting, quiet often stuff I want to get a shot of are out of range for my 18-55 lens and I want to get something with a little more reach.

I'm stuck deciding between the 90mm and 50-140, but can't decide.

For people that have either lens, what do you say about them?

Is the lack of OIS a big deal for the 90mm? Do you find it covers what you need it to, or do you find yourself needing more zoom? Is it ever too long for what you need, and do you ever wish you could zoom out?

Is the 50-140 worth the extra several hundred dollars over the 90mm? how do the two lenses compare in size?

I'll be using either lens to shoot portraits on occasion, but mostly I'll be using it as a travel lens to shoot stuff slightly further away from me.

Sorry for the shit question lmao