Just a reminder to avoid dating sites
My sister who has been on badoo for only 3 days has 1250+ likes, hundreds of messages. I’ve seen the guys she’s picked to chat to, and they are all 9/10+ I don’t blame her, why would she pick a 6/7 if she can get male model. It’s hopeless guys unless you are mega top tier.. she’s now deleted it and admits she still can’t find anyone she can be arsed dating because there is too much choice and most of these guys jump straight to talking dirty (probably because their inbox is similar but filled with women)
I used to think the 80/20 rule was true but on dating sites I’d say it was more like 95/5
(Unless of course you are actively seeking a larger woman or someone who has a load of kids, each to their own!)
Posted Jun 20, 2018, 11:26 PM UTC
They probably jump to talking dirty because if you be polite and try to have a normal conversation girls think you’re boring and don’t reply.
the guys on there are quickly screening out the girls who aren’t dtf. Any good looking guy who gets a decent amount of matches is playing the numbers game and is looking to go from meet to lay ASAP. Majority of girls on dating apps just use it for free attention and will text guys for a few hours just to amuse themselves and then ghost never having any intention of meeting the guy. So guys adapted, u push for her real phone number, push for a meet up, or push the convo sexual right away. The girls who are down will meet u, the girls who just wana play games and waste your time will go away.
Yep, spot on mate.
Which is exactly what she done