Are there any indicators of positive relationships in my chart?

Pluto in my 7th House and it's positions with Saturn and Mars have me feeling really worried. Birth Time is accurate.

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Posted Jun 21, 2018, 3:28 PM UTC

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red837•

Pluto's not on an angle, so you've got that going for you. This fixed cross situation is not a lot of fun. I know someone a couple days younger than you. Do you find yourself getting stuck in a lot of habit patterns? There's pros and cons with this, because habit patterns are stubborn but you've got lasting power for days.

Check out the good aspects. You've got an earth trine going there, so without a lot of effort you can make great use of your skills, find security, probably make money. Jupiter's throwing good aspects to your sun and moon, Pluto's trine your sun and Venus. Saturn's really the issue over everything since you've got harsh aspects (only) coming from it, and harsh aspects going to Mercury (which is how you think). I can say more about that if you want.

Look Pluto in the 7th suuuuuuucks, because it means you meet your shadow in other people, and they can be downright beastly to you... if you give away your power. So learn not to do that. Learn to balance power (Pluto) and authority (Saturn). Learn to balance your power needs (Pluto) and your will (Mars).

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elementsoffOP•

Thank you! Yeah I'd definitely like you to expand on my Mercury and Saturn.

I am one to get stuck in patterns, lately they haven't been so good. I've never had "enemies" but I have had bad people in my life, usually connected to other people I'm close with though. Guess I'll have to have confidence in myself, but not too much confidence that I see others as beneath me.

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red837•

Ok Saturn is only making harsh aspects: inconjunct your sun, square Mars, opposite Mercury, square Pluto. In Aquarius, it's a strong Saturn. Saturn's a heavy planet, and in the 10th, that's underscoring personal authority, and intellectual authority. Saturn-Mercury makes you feel less confident about what you feel you know, and it's also a proneness to dark thoughts. Saturn Pluto is feeling personally responsible for everything (and faulting yourself for things that are not your fault). Saturn Mars is learning to be responsible with your actions, but is a marker of frustration. It's an exact aspect. But what jumps out to me is that Mars and Pluto get decent aspects from other planets in your chart. Saturn and Mercury do not. So that makes me wonder if you have intellectual inferiority issues, or if you have a history of depression? Mercury is how you think, and with the Chiron conjunction and the Saturn opposition, I'm led to think there's something going on there.

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elementsoffOP•

lol damn why did I do this to myself, my own chart reading me for filth

that's dead on for me, I get up and downs and bad anxiety and just can't seem to shake it.

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red837•

That's interesting, my friend with a similar chart also has bad anxiety and doubts his intellect, but he's actually really smart, so it's frustrating. Anything involving Saturn requires work to gain confidence in your intellect, and as you grow this way, I sincerely hope the anxiety gets better!

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acatnamedpeach•

To me, that t-square with Pluto and mars and Saturn at the apex is a life lesson of how you treat people, if you let that Pluto opposing mars get to you it could come back to bite you in the ass in regards to your reputation (Saturn in the tenth). So, just remember the golden rule and do your best. I have Pluto in the seventh in Scorpio also, and I agree with how the user red said to learn about self-empowerment but not over powering others. When you are self empowered and the other person is self empowered in your own spaces that is where you will find a beautiful balance, I personally really love having a seventh house Pluto.

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elementsoffOP•

Okay this is making me feel better haha. Gotta stay vigilant of others but also very self aware.

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