Is the timing to ask about going abroad off?

Hi all, looking for some advice regarding my dating situation, I have been dating somebody for just over 2 months with a month of that being exclusive to each other. We have been physical with each other and I would say that things are going pretty well in all regards, seeing each other about twice a week. however I am just about to go into my second year at uni and I fully plan to go abroad for a year in my third term. The thought of this makes me hesitant to take things further as I don’t think I could do a LDR, especially at such an important time for me at uni. I have mentioned before I plan to go abroad but it was just a passing comment which was never taken further. I know I’m looking a bit into the future but I think it’s only fair I have a conversation with her regarding this even though I’m fully aware we might not make it to that stage, but i feel I’m a pretty honest person and don’t want to dump this sort of thing on her when it’s only a few weeks or months down the line. So the question is really is this far too early to bring this conversation up? I feel this is looming over me and making me apprehensive to take things further, which isn’t fair on her.

Posted Jul 3, 2018, 8:43 AM UTC

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