Why aren't some of these dudes on here banned or why don't yall just ignore them?

I see these incel foos on here making gnarly comments and trolling you girls and you just give them attention and even continue to conversate with them. I'm pretty sure some of you girls even have DMs with them. Like really? I'm talking about iamsamurai, rhughar and ummdaddy and others I think. I'm not gonna correctly spell out their names but you know them. I seen their post and they actually consider themselves handsome incels. Why do you girls associate with these dudes? You talk about dudes mistreating you but you continue to let them chill here and even gave one of them his own flair. I see other incels on here who truly support you femcels but you kind of ignore them so they shy away and leave. If you can't ban them then stop replying to their comments and ignore them. They seem to get a kick in making g slide comments to your every post. That is all. Thanks.