If someone is considering becoming transgender, and they are not willing to disclose their history to any partner immediately before doing anything with them, They should be refused treatment.

Just seen an article on twitter where a trans woman is dating a guy and hasn’t told him after a month, and is asking whether he should tell him.

Is it not common sense that straight guys aren’t interested in men?. What do trans people expect after they’ve lied to a guy about something relationship breaking.

“Yeah dude sorry I wasted your time , I feared you would get violent.” No fucking shit, you deceitful bastard. You think a straight bloke is gonna be happy after finding out a “girl” actually has a penis?. Jesus christ.

If these clowns are not willing to disclose their “identity” , they shouldn’t be allowed to take up the responsibility. This shit is the exact reason why they aren’t accepted. Then they blame the shit on us.

No wonder they call it a mental disability.

Edit: By “immediately”, It should be within the first interaction, or at the very least, the first date. If the guy is being taken to bed, They should tell him. No one likes deception.

Edit 2: The tweet

Posted Jul 24, 2018, 6:43 PM UTC · edited

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Darkside1228•

That's fucking stupid.

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DeclanCollatzMathOP•

Wrong

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Darkside1228•

How.

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DeclanCollatzMathOP•

It’s not stupid

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Darkside1228•

Sure it is. Sex is not more important than health.

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NegativeNansi•

Not to be that guy, but besides the vagina and chromosomes, what's the difference between a fully transitioned woman and a naturally born woman?

For note, I 100% agree that the partner should always be informed before things happen.

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tgjer•

FWIW, a trans woman who has had reconstructive genital surgery has a vagina that will be indistinguishable from that of a cisgender woman via anything short of a very thorough internal medical exam.

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NegativeNansi•

Yeah, I was just curious what the OP thought. There's also the self lubrication part that is missing, but I agree otherwise.

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tgjer•

Actually with some of the more recent surgical techniques, self lubrication is possible too.

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NegativeNansi•

Science is a wonder.

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Phixer7•

Besides those 2 major things, there's a little thing that REAL women can do, #have their partners child#

Most men would like to have their own children with a woman

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NegativeNansi•

Ok, so have a vagina you were born with, a functioning uterus, and no Y chromosome or else you're a dude. Got it.

Anyways, I was just curious, as most of the trans women who have transitioned early in life look and act exactly like your typical female.

I can understand the male apprehension and as mentioned, I agree that the partner should always be informed.

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DeclanCollatzMathOP•

Well, one is still a bloke.

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NegativeNansi•

Didn't really answer my question, so I will just move on.

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DeclanCollatzMathOP•

100% certain you’re a troll.

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NegativeNansi•

Which part made it seem like a troll? The simple question? The acknowledgement that I agree with your initial statement?

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Phixer7•

They should just date within the LGBT community. Normal straight guys dont want to date faux women.

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DeclanCollatzMathOP•

They just don’t seem to grasp the concept of trans woman =/= woman

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ohay_nicole🏳️‍🌈Trans is beautiful🏳️‍🌈•

I think straight men who do not want to date trans women should disclose this on the first date. They're such a minority that women shouldn't have to specifically cater to their delusions.

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DeclanCollatzMathOP•

No, it should be the other way around. It’s common sense.

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ohay_nicole🏳️‍🌈Trans is beautiful🏳️‍🌈•

There is nothing sensical about demanding women conform to your ideals and not communicating that with a potential partner. That’s some incel bullshit.

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DeclanCollatzMathOP•
  1. Trans women =/= women

  2. I’m asking someone with a relationship breaking trait to fucking come clean about it. Same with STDs, Same with marriage. If you intentionally withhold that information from your partner, you fucking deserve the consequences.

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ohay_nicole🏳️‍🌈Trans is beautiful🏳️‍🌈•

you fucking deserve the consequences

Also some incel bullshit. Communicate with your potential parters. The onus is not on them to anticipate that you want a waifu on the first date, and they certainly don't "fucking deserve the consequences" of you getting violent because they didn't read your mind.

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