Would you date someone that only sucks and rims?
And no anal under any circumstances? In addition to kissing ofc.
Posted Aug 7, 2018, 8:24 PM UTC
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Yep. I'm not into anal so that sounds just about right.
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Anal horrifies me... so i’d agree to it.
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Me too!!
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I would still date someone that didn't want sex. It's all about compassion, friendship, and love. Finding someone to build trust and a future together. For me that means way more than sex.
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If you'd be open to the idea of involving toys as well then yes :)
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Yeah. We're basically like that now. Anal is only on the menu a few times a year.
I don't need that that often at all.
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I like anal a lot, but my boyfriend doesn't. I love my boyfriend more than anal so we don't do anal. Its not a big deal, there's still plenty of other things we can do in the bedroom. Theres more important parts of the relationship other than anal sex.
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It depends on if you are into just that too. I only know of one couple that were a anal/no anal pair up. It lasted a couple years, and then they split. If you enjoy actual sex, it's really hard to give up, no matter how talented the oral is.
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So youd give up your soulmate just for sex?
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It's amazing how many soul mates you'll have. Or how resentment will creep in, and one day they aren't your soul mate any more.
It all comes down to knowing yourself. If you aren't sure, you can try things out and see where they go. Life doesn't have a finish line, enjoy your journey.
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Probably not. It's not a huge deal... but I also would want a guy that's open to it every now and then.
EDIT: I answered the question... and got downvoted! Guess I pissed somebody off haha
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I'd entertain it for a little bit. Probably wouldn't work out but can't say for certain. I'd give it a spin if they were otherwise attractive/thoughtful/independent.
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Date? No. Hook up with randomly, sure.
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that's not for me no, I'd rather have sex with them, suck dick and eat ass.
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No
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Probably not if that was the only thing I knew about them going into it, but if I knew the person and liked them, I could get past certain sexual inclinations.
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No anal sex ever.... and it surprises me to know there are other gay guys who feel that way... I really never liked the stereotype that all gay guys are focused on buttsex... not me...
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Nah fuck that. I love getting my hole pounded if my guy wasn't into that than were not compatible.
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Sex isn't everything. It's only part of the relationship. So... yeah. I'd certainly consider it.
...and then you look at all the relationships were they've been sexually incompatible and have come to resent each other over the years. I'm not taking that chance.
Sorry I wasn't meaning that I wouldn't want sex, but to me anal isn't 100% vital so long as I do get other intimate attention.