Instead of making a new post you could search up "Smite queue times". That way you see other peoples posts and don't ask the same stuff that has been asked several times. 

To actually answer your question: It is a new Queue system and there are bugs to fix, in the recent patch notes they addressed this issue and said that you will no longer be double queue-passed

Just came back from a year break and it took me 12 minutes to get into 1 game of Normal Conquest. After the 1st 3:30 minutes, it couldn't find a match and put me through another 3:30. Two queue's pass, players dc BOTH times so it puts me back into the queue for 3:30 where it STILL doesn't find a match and puts me through another queue. Did the servers go to shit? Did the game just become a lot more dead? Is there a problem on my end?

What is wrong with queue times?